16 days, 7 flights, 3 countries…1 carry-on!

I’ve always been a fairly light packer, so as my SouthEast Asia trip started coming together, I knew I wanted to get by with carryon luggage only.  My first flight involved a 20 hour, overnight layover and a hotel stay – what would happen to my checked baggage?  Not to mention, with 7 flights over 2 weeks, I didn’t want to waste time at baggage claim each time or worse, risk losing my belongings!  I knew I would have to do laundry at some point in the trip, but that’s pretty typical on my longer trips.  I had a few pool days planned where sending my laundry out wouldn’t be an inconvenience. With that in mind, here is my Asia Packing List.

This was not an easy trip to pack for.  Heat and humidity, combined with modesty guidelines for visiting temples meant no tank tops and shorts for the most part.

The carry-on I took for this trip is the TravelPro MaxLite 3 International Carry-On Spinner.  It looks and feels tiny, but you can cram a whole lot into this bag!  My “personal item” was my trusty Timbuk2 messenger bag.  I love this bag – I’m wary of backpacks when traveling as I feel like someone could easily get into the back without me knowing and they just scream “tourist!”  Plus, this bag has crazy loud velcro (not so great on a flight!) and buckles so I feel like it would be hard for a thief to sneak into.

Here’s the packing list of what I took along:

  • Clothing:
    • 1 pair white linen pants (Athleta)
    • 1 pair black linen capri pants (J.Jill)
    • 1 black skort (LLBean)
    • 1 pair gray shorts (Prana)
    • Pajamas – old workout clothes I planned to leave behind
    • 1 swim-suit (Boden)
    • 1 maxi dress (JCrew)
    • 1 t-shirt dress (Garnet Hill)
    • 2 lightweight sweaters (Eileen Fisher and Athleta)
    • 7 Tops – 3 t-shirts, 1 nicer top, 3 tanks
    • Yoga Capri pants and denim tunic I wore on the plane
  • Shoes:
  • Accessories
    • 1 Panama Hat
    • 1 Sarong
    • Pashmina wrap for the plane
    • Extra tote bag for shopping/return carry-on
    • Compression Socks (for the flight)
    • Sunglasses, prescription sunglasses and prescription glasses (ah, life at 40!)
  • Electronics
    • DSLR – Nikon D3000
    • 3 lenses, battery pack, charger, etc
    • iPhone 4S w/ waterproof case
    • iPhone 5S for photos, podcasts and Instagram updates
    • Kindle
  • Miscellaneous
    • Kind Bars and Lara Bars.  For just in case!
    • G2 Powder
    • Lifestraw Water Bottle
    • Laundry bag & Laundry Soap Leaves – for sink laundry
    • Wet wipes, bleach wipes, bum wipes
    • Toiletries – the usual toothpaste, deodorant, face wash…no makeup!
    • First-Aid – small bag with aspirin, band-aids, pepto, immodium

I got off to a bad start when they weighed my luggage at the O’Hare Cathay Pacific ticketing desk.  I hadn’t anticipated this, and of course, my roller-bag was overweight.  So I was that person at the desk, shuffling items from one bag to the other (not sure why, as they were both being carried on!) and was eventually given the green light despite the fact that I was carrying several loose items that I stuffed right back in the roller-bag as soon as I was out of sight of the ticketing agent.  And while I’m confessing my sins, I’ll also admit to bringing 2 1-liter bags full of 3 oz toiletries!  I had strategically packed one of necessities and a 2nd I could live without if I got busted, which thankfully, I did not!

I feel like I brought a lot of items that were more suited to a backpackers trip. I mostly took planes and stayed in nice hotels, so I didn’t need as many wipes or cleaning items as I thought.  I barely used the Lifestraw Water bottle as every hotel provided bottled water on a daily basis, although looking back, I should have used my bottle to reduce waste as recycling wasn’t widespread.

On final reflection, I could have actually gotten by with much less – maybe 1 more swimsuit, more underwear and fewer shoes and sweaters.  In total, I spent about $40 to send out my laundry twice, both times using the hotel service.  (Granted, I could have taken it down the street for $3, but better safe than sorry!)

I never felt like I was missing anything by not bringing a larger suitcase, and it was so nice to bypass the baggage claim area every time I landed.  I did eventually check the roller-bag towards the end of my trip after buying some souvenirs and expanding into a 2nd tote bag, but for the most part was quite happy with my packing strategy!  I’ll never be one of those people who always tries to go smaller and smaller, as there are some trips where I want lots of shoes and clothing options, but this time carry-on only worked perfectly for me!

And, despite what my sister might think, I did not wear the exact same outfit every day for 16 days 😉

Angkor Wat


Siem Reap

Are you a light packer, or do you bring everything but the kitchen sink on your travels?


Asia Packing List

Solo in SouthEast Asia

If I’m being totally honest, Asia was never high on my travel wish list – I pictured steamy hot crowded cities, and a very long flight to get there. I’m past the age where I want to budget backpack and stay in hostels. There were just a lot of other places much higher on my list, and easier to reach. And then, friends of mine moved to Shanghai. Having a local to visit totally changes the ballgame and is a great excuse to go someplace you normally wouldn’t. So, in the summer of 2015, planning began.

By Winter 2015, my friends had been called back to the States much earlier than expected. Oops! I was too far into planning and booking to cancel my trip, but I had also done enough research that I was getting excited about the things I had planned. I had only scheduled a few days in Shanghai at the end of my trip so that was easy enough to cut out. No need to deal with the red tape of China this time around! This is my SouthEast Asia itinerary for two weeks of solo travel.

I was pretty relieved that my ATM card worked with no issues!

Hong Kong Arrival

Again, not keen on big, crowded cities, I intended to avoid Bangkok or spend very little time there. I had a friend who told me about an elephant sanctuary outside Chiang Mai, so I knew I had to get there and it seemed as good a place as any to start my trip! I found a good deal on a flight to Chiang Mai, with an overnight layover in HongKong. Even with a hotel cost, it was still cheaper than the next cheapest option. (With no direct flights from Chicago to Bangkok, I was also trying to avoid a 3-legged start to my trip) My overnight in Hong Kong gave me just enough time to visit the Big Buddha on Lantau Island before catching my late morning flight to Thailand.

Chiang Mai, Thailand

I spent three nights in Chiang Mai.  A food tour, photography tour and full day spent at Elephant Nature Park didn’t leave much down time.

Bangkok, Thailand

I then took an overnight train to Bangkok, where I stayed at the Aloft Bangkok for two nights. My first class sleeper car came with a pet roach, so I got no sleep that night! Originally, I only planned 1 night in Bangkok (mostly so I could sing the song!) but when I found out about Sak Yant Tattoos at Wat Bang Phra outside the city, I changed my itinerary to work this in.  An evening tuk tuk tour was the only other thing I managed to do in Bangkok! The heat was oppressive!

First class car (First Class is a relative term here)

Expique - Bangkok Night Lights TukTuk Tour

Siem Reap, Cambodia

Next, I flew to Siem Riep in Cambodia to visit the Angkor Wat temples. I planned to take a bus from Bangkok just for adventure, but at the last minute found a flight for $70 and decided I had better ways to spend 8 hours than on a chicken bus. (After my first class train experience, I’m so glad I opted to fly!) In Siem Reap, I spent 3 nights at Le Meridien Angkor, a full day touring the temples, and a whole lot of time at the pool!  (Who can blame me, it was gorgeous!)

Angkor Wat

Le Meridien Angkor


At this point, I originally planned to fly to Shanghai, but instead doubled back to Thailand for some beach time in Phuket.  Here, I stayed 3 nights at the Westin Siray Bay, with a full-day kayak tour and again, lots of pool time!


From Phuket, I flew back to HongKong for 1 more night before my morning flight back to Chicago the next day. I hoped to visit Victoria Peak, but it was rainy and cloudy and I was exhausted at this point, so the rest of Hong Kong would have to wait for another trip.

Trip Budget

Overall, my itinerary got a little wonky with changes, and I was somewhat limited due to the fact that I originally purchased a flight home from Shanghai using miles (luckily I was able to change it from HongKong for $5 but not Bangkok which would have been much easier), but overall, it worked out pretty well!

  • Total trip Cost ~ $4200
    • Flights (5) – $1723 + 40,000 United miles
    • Hotels (13) – $717 + 30,000 Starwood Points
    • Tours & Tips – $662
    • Food – $365
    • Taxis – $237
    • Souvenirs – $200
    • Spa Visits – $67
    • Laundry – $40
    • Overnight Train Bangkok- 1st class sleeper – $50
    • Cambodian Visa – $30
    • Dog Boarding $100 (only 2 nights…thanks, Mom!)

For those wondering about all the Starwood points, I use a Starwood Preferred Guest American Express card for most of my daily expenses.  I don’t travel constantly, or stay in hotels all that often, but when I do, I try to stay with one chain to maximize my points. Most of my points are earned through everyday purchases like gas, groceries and take-out…so much take-out!  The $95 Annual Fee is well worth it, given how many free nights I used on this trip alone!


SouthEast Asia Itinerary


3 Days in Chiang Mai, Thailand

The main reason I chose to visit Chiang Mai was the Elephant Nature Park, but the more I read, the more excited I was to visit! Chiang Mai is apparently an expat/digital nomad haven, so there are plenty of travel blogs covering the area. The city was still larger than I expected, but much more manageable and charming than Bangkok. (10 million people vs 400,000!) Here’s how I spent 3 days in Chiang Mai.

Wat Chiang Man - meeting location of food tour

Chiang Mai Food Tour

The morning after my arrival from Hong Kong, I joined Chiang Mai Food Tours for their Taste of the North & Old Town Chiang Mai Walk, which ended up being a private tour! I met my guide, Rain, near a temple in the Old Town.  As we strolled through several temples, Rain did an excellent job explaining Buddhism, the history of Thailand and the kingdom of Lanna. Being a food tour, of course we visited many interesting food stalls.  Left to my own devices, I will default to pasta and pizza (yes, I have the palate of a 9 year old) so it was great to have someone ordering for me!  We sampled many local specialties, such as Chiang Mai sausage and Khao Soi.

Somphet Market10 is about 30 cents

Another food stop where we tried several things - all were good, but of course...spicy!  Thank goodness for plain rice :)

The tour lasted from 10-2 and I’ll admit that eating so much food in the heat of the day was difficult. This was my first day in the Southeast Asian humidity, so I was really dragging for the last hour.  Early morning or evening tours are a better bet for me!  Fortunately, the tour ended at the lovely Makka hotel with lemongrass tea and sweet treats that Rain picked up at the market.  When the tour was over, she helped negotiate a good tuk-tuk price to take me back to the hotel, where I promptly collapsed at the pool for the rest of the day.

Sweet treats to end the food tour; and lemongrass tea, which was tasty!

Chiang Mai Photo Workshop

Later the same evening, I joined a photo tour with Chiang Mai Photo Workshops.  I was very excited for this tour, as I still didn’t fully understand the functions of my DSLR camera and often still shot in “Auto” mode. Shortly before sunset, I met Kevin and his wife, Pu, near the iron bridge, which was a short stroll from my hotel. Again, I was the only one signed up for the tour, so I had private instruction. Kevin, a Kiwi who lived in Thailand for several years, is a great instructor, helpfully answering all of my questions and giving pointers on shooting the sunset over the river in front of us.

After the sun set, we moved on to our second location, which was a pedestrian bridge over a market area, where we would play with long exposures and shooting the traffic below.

2nd location - pedestrian bridge over a market

Our third and final stop was Wat Chedi Luang, where the goal was to photograph the temple under night lights.  However, we lucked out and happened upon young monks in training leaving their sessions for the evening, so we got some great shots of them as well.

Elephant Nature Park

The following day, I visited Elephant Nature Park for the day. You can read more about my day with the elephants in this post.

Chiang Mai Old Town

For my final day in Chiang Mai, I had no specific plans, but I wanted to practice some of the new photography skills I’d learned from Kevin and Pu.  I was up quite early (thanks, jetlag!) and decided to just roam the streets in the general direction of Old Town.  It was really cool to see the quiet side of Chiang Mai before everyone was out and about.  One of my stops was Lila Thai Massage, where I had a 1-hour foot massage for $4. Lila Thai offers post-release employment for graduates from the prison’s massage training program.  The foot massage was essentially a full leg massage – it was heavenly, and it wasn’t the only one I had on this trip!

After a morning of sightseeing, I returned to the pool for the afternoon until it was time to catch the evening train to Bangkok.  (Tip: take the flight if you can afford it!) I really enjoyed my 3 days in Chiang Mai and would highly recommend it to anyone visiting Thailand!

Le Meridien Chiang Mai

I chose Le Meridien Chiang Mai as my home base for 3 nights – this was my first visit to a Le Meridien property and for only 4,000 Starwood points per night, I wasn’t sure what to expect, but was pleasantly surprised!  Le Meridien has all the amenities of a luxury hotel, and is within walking distance of the old city.

For all of my pictures from Chiang Mai, click here!


3 Days in Chiang Mai